Wielding Stereotypes as a Power of Privilege
Embed from Getty ImagesWe all know the stereotype of the nagging wife, the complaining woman, and the library of jokes that support oppression.Have you recently sat at a table of cishet white men who...
View ArticleBoyhood Loathing Turns to Professional Passion
Embed from Getty ImagesMy childhood loathing of grammar became my professional passion.I hated English class in primary school. I didn’t like English class in secondary school either, but I grew to...
View ArticleBetween Men and Women, Where Is the Hope?
I found hope for the relations between men and women at a table on a sidewalk.Six people were sitting at the table, both benches filled, no room for any others. There was tension, even though everyone...
View ArticleThe Pull of the Ocean
Night tide comes Waves break so close to shore more than once I wake ready to run Then tide sucks out, sand a vacuum in ebb’s wake Finally, give in. The draw pulls me down to the break As tide goes way...
View ArticleAn Oral History of Oral Histories
“I’ve been wanting to write an “Oral History of . . . oral histories,” since – well – every time I read an oral history. So today, I just went ahead and did.” — The odd thing about oral histories is...
View ArticleHobo Ethical Code of 1889
Recently, Edie Weinstein wrote an article about when she was raising her son, and how she had to create a list of House Rules. Edie’s list of House Rules immediately reminded me of the Hobo Ethical...
View Article21 Powerful Ways That Men Practice Happiness
—- Happiness isn’t merely “that time when…” or some fleeting feeling. It’s a way of living, a practice. Work, sport, traveling, and training in mindfulness have painted for me a direct link between...
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